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Welcome to The Mourning Cafe

📖 Introduction:

 Hi, I’m Tamara “Coach Tam” Vanderpool.
As a wife, mom, retired veteran, and certified Life & Health Coach with a Master’s in Mental Health and Wellness, I know the weight of life’s hardest transitions. That’s why I created The Mourning Café—a safe space to heal, grow, and rediscover yourself.

Here, we walk together through grief and change with compassion and proven strategies, helping you honor your journey and embrace your “New You, 2.0.”


Book now for a free consultation!


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About The Mourning Cafe

🌿 Our Mission at The Mourning Café

 At The Mourning Café, our mission is simple yet powerful: to provide a safe, nurturing space where healing and growth can flourish. We believe that every person deserves compassionate support and personalized guidance as they navigate life’s transitions, grief, and moments of change.  

Through our coaching, we empower you to:

  • Take ownership of your well-being  
  • Discover resilience and strength within yourself  
  • Create meaningful, lasting changes that align with the life you desire  

✨ Because healing isn’t just about moving on—it’s about moving forward into a healthier, more fulfilling version of yourself. 

“From loss to renewal—together, we’ll uncover your strength and create your next chapter.”

 


🌿 Programs We Offer

 

✨ Compassionate coaching to help you heal, grow, and embrace your “New You, 2.0.”


🪷 Healing Through Grief Coaching

Personalized sessions with mindfulness, journaling, and coping strategies to help you honor your grief and find peace.
🌼 Outcome: Healing at your own pace with greater calm.


🌟 Life After Loss: Rediscovering Purpose

Clarity sessions and goal setting to guide you toward new passions and meaning while honoring your loss.
🌼 Outcome: A renewed sense of direction and fulfillment.


🌱 Empathy & Resilience for Life Transitions

Support for navigating change with stress management tools, resilience practices, and healthy new habits.
🌼 Outcome: More confidence, compassion, and strength in times of change.


Begin Your New You, 2.0!

🌷 Our Philosophy

 


At The Mourning Café, we believe healing is more than moving past pain—it’s about rediscovering life with hope, strength, and purpose.

Our philosophy is simple: every journey is unique, every heart deserves compassion, and every step forward is worth celebrating.

With guidance rooted in life and health coaching, wellness practices, and heartfelt support, we walk beside you as you navigate grief, life transitions, and personal growth.

✨ Here, you’ll find more than coaching—you’ll find a safe space to breathe, to heal, and to embrace your “New You, 2.0.”” 

Check out Our Mourning tribe!!

New Year, New You! Coming soon for 2026!!!!


The best version of YOU!

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 ✨ The L.I.V.E. Framework

At The Mourning Café, we guide you through grief and life transitions with our signature L.I.V.E. Framework—a path toward healing, growth, and renewal.

L – Let Yourself Feel
Give yourself permission to experience every emotion. Healing begins when you honor your feelings instead of hiding them.

I – Identify Support
You don’t have to do this alone. Together, we help you lean on trusted people, groups, and resources that strengthen your journey.

V – Value Your Journey
Grief isn’t one-size-fits-all. Your path is unique, and healing takes time. We encourage compassion for yourself every step of the way.

E – Embrace New Beginnings
With support, you can create space for meaning, growth, and even joy again—honoring the past while opening your heart to the future.

Transform Your Life with The Mourning Cafe

  “Guiding you through grief and life’s transitions with compassion and hope.”


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    🌸 Tip of the Week 

    Like trees shedding old leaves, spring invites us to let go of what no longer serves us. Grief may change us, but it doesn’t stop us from blooming.
    This week, reflect on what you're ready to release—and allow space for something new to grow.

    — Coach Tam 💛 The Mourning Cafe

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